My partner wants to make a threesome !!!
Would you be willing to accept another person in your relationship to fulfill the sexual fantasy of your boyfriend or husband? Read before making any decision.
Would you be willing to accept another person in your relationship to fulfill the sexual fantasy of your boyfriend or husband? Read before making any decision.
I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years. I was a virgin when we had our first sexual relationship. Recently while we were together he told me that he wanted to do a threesome so that I had double penetration. He says he is curious, but not me. My husband is 40 years old and I am 36. He has been asking me for some time to fulfill his wish that we are both with another woman. He says he won't touch her, that he wants her to dedicate himself to me. I flatly refuse, but he insists so much that every time he stays he only sees companions on the Internet. I feel that this is why I am being unfaithful. 2 years ago I am a girlfriend. Recently, he came up with the idea of ​​doing a threesome and although I disagree I followed the game. As we do not know who to call, he proposed to tell a friend of his that he met online and for which we have already had several problems. Since I didn't want to, he now tells me to tell a friend of mine. I'm afraid he likes the friend. ”
These are separate from some of the consultations that hundreds of people make on the Web every day in sexologist pages or in forums. With these questions as a basis, we consulted several experts on the subject to determine if it is favorable for a relationship to make a trio.
Well, despite the belief that to enliven passion in a relationship it is valid to try everything and this includes making the sexual fantasies of the couple come true, the specialists agree that it is necessary that both members absolutely agree, wish to live the experience and Be aware that adventure can have consequences.
What can happen?
The emotional implications of involving another person in a sexual relationship are many. It is possible that a solid courtship or marriage will end up succumbing to temptation; from now on compare the performance with the one presented by the third party during the meeting; that the self-esteem of one of the two is lowered to the point that you can not have pleasant sex with your partner again; that the game passes to another level and either of them feels attacked, or that a parallel relationship arises that leads to the end of the courtship or even the marriage.
What to ask then before accessing?
Before making any decision, it is essential that you ask yourself these questions to determine if you really want to be part of the trio with the emotional implications that the new experience brings.
• Once I allow myself to have sex with another woman, can I trust him again?
• How will I feel when it happens? What if I don't like what I see and want to stop? How would you react so as not to offend him or go through prudence?
• What implications will this have in my relationship?
• Will I be able to face this once it happens?
• Could it be that once he fulfills his fantasy, the subject will stop there or every time he will want to try more things because he does not feel well being alone with me?
• What would happen if I like the other man better? Am I willing to pretend not to make my partner feel bad?
• I really want to try because I would love to live the experience or I only do it to fulfill his fantasy, but if I could choose, would I say no?
• Is he thinking of pleasing me?
If you already accepted
If the decision is already made, you want to experiment and you think that the trio can be an interesting way to spice up and action your relationship, then it is important that before the meeting you make these five aspects clear:
1. The use of a condom is mandatory and, if possible, an exam that ensures that the third party is not HIV positive.
2. It is not valid under any circumstances to exchange phones, email addresses or any other data that allows them to get in touch again.
3. The trio must be done with someone totally unknown.
4. There is no option to repeat the experience with the same person.
5. The place chosen must be by mutual agreement. Some couples prefer that it be at home because they feel more comfortable, while others choose spaces that break completely with their daily lives.
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